When All Else Fails … Throw Flour

I’d been having a really bad day. You know, the kind of day where everything that possibly can go wrong, does. After a while little things seemed huge and I started feeling really stressed and frustrated. I wanted to cuss. I wanted to yell at my family. I wanted to curl up on the couch and feel sorry for myself. I wanted to wallow in the notion that God didn’t give a hoot. But, I didn’t. I threw flour instead.

Let me explain.

When we are feeling stressed and stretched to the max, there are lots of destructive ways we can respond. We can lash out at our friends and family members. We can medicate ourselves with food, or shopping, or the Internet. We can look to our human relationships to soothe us. We can turn to substances like drugs or alcohol looking for a high to counteract our lows. We can cut. We can bail. We can sink into despair. Or we can cling to God’s Truth and find a way to keep on going.

When my day got uber stressful, I felt myself starting to believe the lies of the Enemy. My problems seemed insurmountable. My stress felt unmanageable. Instead of letting myself sink into despair I found a way to get a grip. I grabbed the huge bucket of flour I was using to cook with, hauled it outside, and called for my family. We took turns lobbing flour at each other and before long we were laughing so hard, the stress we were facing just melted away.

When it was all said and done (it took us an hour to sweep up all the flour), I was reminded that living out God’s Truth is a choice. Stress is part of life. Bad days will come. Defeat and despair will always knock at the doors of our hearts. We can react in ways that hurt ourselves or others or we can find a way to keep going and cling to the hope God offers us in His Word.

You don’t have to throw flour to get through your own stress. You can take a walk, call up a friend, go pick flowers, knit, draw, sing, dance…the possibilities are endless. The point is to do something constructive that allows you to take a breath and get some fresh perspective.

What are some constructive ways you like to de-stress?

About Author


Erin is passionate about pointing young women toward God's Truth. She is the author of several books and a frequent speaker and blogger to women of all ages. Erin lives on a small farm in the midwest with her husband and kids. When she's not writing, you can find her herding goats, chickens, and children.

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