Do You Need TV Boundaries?

We’re focusing our attention on the subject of media this month. But it’s really more a conversation about boundaries. You won’t hear me saying “all media is bad,” and I won’t be asking you to unplug your TV, cancel your Internet service, and refuse to ever see another movie. That doesn’t seem like a realistic approach to me.

As is the case in all areas of our lives, our choices are a reflection of our hearts. I most desire to impassion you to trust God’s standards in this area. I want you to know how to live in our media-saturated culture without compromising your commitment to God’s Truth. And I want you to develop the ability to discern what is healthy and what is toxic to your hearts and lives.

As part of that conversation, I want to share with you some of the decisions others have made. I recently spoke with Nancy about the parameters she has for television watching. I think you’ll find her insights food for thought that’s worth chewing on.

Erin: What made you decide to re-evaluate your TV viewing habits?

Nancy: I grew up without TV. So I wasn’t really a media consumer. But after years of living alone, I’d get home from a long day of work and use the TV for decompressing. I wasn’t watching bad stuff. I didn’t have cable. But I realized I was vegging out a lot and that it was sapping spiritual vitality and my hunger for spiritual things. I am kind of an addictive person as opposed to self-controlled. I’m pretty all or nothing. So my television habits weren’t really bad, but they weren’t good.

Erin: So what specific boundaries did you establish?

Nancy: I decided not to watch television alone. After months and years of putting off that conviction, I finally made that commitment and followed through. With very few exceptions, I have kept that commitment.

Erin: What was the result?

Nancy: Within a very short period of time, I noticed such a dramatic difference in my sensitivity to spiritual things—in my heart and hunger for spiritual things. It was revival! I just felt like God had set me free. One year later I spoke to Campus Crusade. That, in God’s providence, ultimately resulted in Revive Our Hearts.

It has been a checkpoint in my life. I’ve decided that I am going to be intentional. I am not just going to leave the TV on. It has been a good safeguard. There have been times when I have watched television since then. And when I went back to it, I realized that what I was watching wasn’t as clean as I thought it was.

One seemingly small decision, to refrain from watching television alone, has had a tremendous impact on Nancy’s life and the lives of many others. That is the power of being intentional in our media habits.

You will hear the testimonies of others who have made specific media choices later on the blog. In the meantime, I’d love to hear your thoughts. What do you think about Nancy’s commitment not to watch television alone and the impact it had on her spiritual life? Are there any commitments you sense God asking you to make in the area of media that you have been putting off? Are there boundaries you have already established that are bearing fruit?

About Author

Erin Davis is an author, blogger, and speaker who loves to see women of all ages run to the deep well of God’s Word. She is the author of many books and Bible studies including: 7 Feasts, Connected, Beautiful Encounters, and the My Name Is Erin series. She serves on the ministry team of Revive Our Hearts. When she’s not writing, you can find Erin chasing chickens and children on her small farm in the Midwest.

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