I think it is great advice to stop looking for the perfect guy and to ask
God to bring you a fella who is working toward becoming more like Jesus. But how
will you know if an imperfect guy will make a great husband?
Have you ever considered what it means to be a girl? Have you ever contrasted our culture’s definition of girlhood with the one presented in God’s Word? If not, I want you to challenge you to turn your thinking toward gender. It’s so important for you to realize what the Designer intended when He created you. Specifically, I want you to consider if it’s wise for girls to pursue guys or if it should be the other way around.