Ugh. There she is, I thought to myself as she walked into class on the first day of school.
She was the girl who started dating my ex-boyfriend one week after our relationship ended. I was still stung by the fact that she would ever do something like that. Still angry at the fact we were ever friends.
As the days progressed and I was forced to see her every day, my anger continued to fester. And as my anger worsened, so did my thoughts.
In my head, I would imagine different scenarios where I gave her and my ex-boyfriend a “piece of my mind,” and, I’m ashamed to admit, these scenarios were filled with profanity and bitterness. They completely contradicted God’s Word.
To be honest, I initially thought it was okay, because I wasn’t actually saying or doing the things I was fantasizing about. I believed it was fine to play out those scenarios in my head since they weren’t manifesting themselves in real life.
The Thoughts in Your Head Get Louder
Then one day my accounting teacher called me out for talking in class. I apologized; but in my head, I was reciting a profanity-laced diatribe about what I would say to her if I weren’t such a “nice Christian girl.”
And then . . . the voice of the Holy Spirit convicted me.
The thoughts and scenarios I had played out with my former friend were now spilling over into other relationships, and I realized I had a problem. Even though I could “keep my cool” on the outside, I wasn’t cool on the inside. I realized my mind had been taken over with foulness and negativity. (Sin!)
I sought forgiveness and had to set up a new pattern; it was difficult work that didn’t happen overnight. But God makes turning from our sin possible!
Capture Those Thoughts
Second Corinthians 10:5 says, “We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ.”
This means we must evaluate our thoughts and assess whether they honor or displease God.
I hadn’t read this verse or heard of “taking your thoughts captive” until years later when I was in college. I wish I had so that I could’ve addressed my issue before it started to take over my mind. I hope you can learn from my mistakes and take your thoughts captive before sin captures you!
A Pure, Lovely, Praiseworthy Thought Life
- Have you ever played out scenarios of revenge on someone you can’t stand?
- Do you cuss in your head but not out loud?
- Do you justify the negative thoughts you dwell on since you’re not acting on them?
Let’s challenge ourselves with God’s Word today.
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things (Phil. 4:8).
Are our thought lives healthy? Pure? God-honoring? Or are they disobedient, impure, and angry?
We can ask God to evaluate our thoughts according to Truth, and He can help us take the lies and sin captive so we can walk in freedom. Let’s pray His Word together.
Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting! (Ps. 139:23–24).
If you’re dealing with sin in your thought life, know that God freely forgives. He’s ready to help you capture the sinful thoughts and put them to death.